newbobooks Chapter 402: It's really hard to get used to it
Chapter 402: It's really hard to get used to it
"That's what you said, but you also have to consider the child's feelings. Look, the relationship between you and your son is so strained now. This is not a solution," said Yi Zhonghai.
"Then what should I do?" Yan Bugui asked.
Yi Zhonghai thought for a moment and said, "Find an opportunity to have a good talk with your child, tell him your thoughts, and listen to his thoughts. Once everyone has talked it out, perhaps the conflict can be resolved."
Yan Bugui felt that what Yi Zhonghai said made sense and decided to talk to his youngest son.
At this time, the younger son also came to see Yan Bugui. The father and son met in the yard, and the atmosphere was a little awkward.
"Dad..." The youngest son spoke first.
"Hmm..." Yan Bugui responded.
"Can we talk?" the youngest son asked.
Yan Bugui nodded.
They came to a quiet place, sat down and started talking.
"Dad, I know you're doing this for my own good. You're worried that I won't have a good life in the future. But you also have to consider my feelings. This wedding is the most important event in my life. I feel really bad that you've made it so shabby," said the youngest son.
Yan Bugui felt a little guilty after hearing this. "Son, I know I may have gone a little too far. But I have no choice. You know the situation of our family. We have to be frugal in life."
"I know our family is not rich, but we can't be so shabby. Look at other people's weddings, which one isn't lively and grand? I don't ask to be the same as others, but at least it can't be too bad." said the youngest son.
Yan Bugui was silent for a while and said, "My child, I was not thoughtful enough. I will pay more attention to it in the future. But you also have to understand my painstaking efforts. I just want you to have a better life in the future."
After hearing what Yan Bugui said, the younger son's resentment subsided a little. "Dad, I know you are doing this for my own good. I will live a good life in the future and not let you worry."
The father and son finally talked it out, and their relationship eased a lot. Since then, although they occasionally have some minor conflicts, they can communicate and resolve them in time. Life in the courtyard has returned to its former peace.
As time went by, the life of the youngest son and his wife became happier and happier. They worked hard, saved money, and lived a better life. Yan Bugui was very pleased to see the changes in his youngest son.
Yan Bugui himself was also reflecting on his own behavior. He realized that his stinginess might sometimes hurt the feelings of his family. Since then, he has also begun to appropriately change his lifestyle and is no longer so stingy.
During the days in the courtyard, everyone is constantly growing and changing. The story of Yan Bugui and his youngest son has also become a lesson for everyone, allowing everyone to cherish the relationship between family members and learn to understand and tolerate each other.
In the courtyard, Sha Zhu's recent abnormal behavior has indeed aroused everyone's curiosity and discussion. His smiling face all day long and his extremely warm attitude towards everyone have surprised the neighbors who are used to his straightforward temper.
One day, several neighbors gathered in the shade of the yard to chat, and the topic naturally turned to Sha Zhu.
"What do you think is wrong with this silly Zhu lately? He is smiling all day long, which looks scary." An old lady spoke first.
"Yeah, I find it strange too. He wasn't so enthusiastic before, but now he greets everyone he meets. Is he really stupid?" another neighbor echoed.
"Maybe something good happened to him, but he looks so silly that we don't know how long it will last even if something good happened," someone joked.
Everyone was discussing and guessing the reason for Sha Zhu's change. At this time, Sha Zhu just came back from outside, saw everyone gathered together, and greeted them enthusiastically.
"Everyone is here! The weather is so nice today!" Sha Zhu said with a smile on his face.
The neighbors looked at each other, not knowing how to respond. Sha Zhu didn't care, he just hummed a little tune and went back to his room.
After Sha Zhu left, everyone's discussion became even more heated.
"You see, there is definitely something wrong with him. How could someone suddenly become so strange?"
"Maybe he was stimulated by something and his brain was damaged."
"Oh, never mind him, Shazhu has never been normal anyway."
However, they didn't know that there was a reason for Sha Zhu's change. Recently, Sha Zhu was praised by the leader in the factory because his cooking skills had improved again and the meals he made were praised by everyone. This made Sha Zhu feel very proud and satisfied, and his mood became particularly good.
Moreover, Sha Zhu accidentally met a like-minded friend outside, and the two chatted very well, which made Sha Zhu's life more fun. That's why he became so happy and enthusiastic towards everyone.
But the neighbors of the courtyard didn't understand this. They just relied on their own subjective judgment and thought that Shazhu was even more stupid. This misunderstanding lasted for a while in the courtyard until one day, the truth gradually surfaced.
A neighbor who was on good terms with Sha Zhu accidentally learned the reason for Sha Zhu's change, and he quickly told everyone the news. Everyone suddenly realized that Sha Zhu was not stupid, but that he became like this because of good things.
Since then, everyone's attitude towards Sha Zhu has changed. Although they still think he is a little strange, they no longer think he is stupider than before. And Sha Zhu still maintains his good mood and continues to convey his enthusiasm in the courtyard.
As the neighbor spread the reason for Shazhu's change, people in the courtyard began to change their views on Shazhu, but they were still a little curious and confused.
Some people began to re-examine Sha Zhu, thinking that maybe he was not just a reckless fool as everyone had always thought. After learning the truth, the old lady whispered to other neighbors in private: "I didn't expect Sha Zhu to be so happy because he was praised in the factory. It seems that he has a motivated side." Another neighbor responded: "Yes, we all underestimated him before. But he suddenly became so enthusiastic, it's really a bit unusual."
Sha Zhu was completely unaware of the discussions behind his back, and he was still immersed in his own joy. He was full of energy when he went to work in the factory every day, thinking about making more delicious meals and living up to the praise of his leaders. After get off work, he returned to the courtyard and greeted the neighbors as usual, sharing some interesting things he heard outside.
One day, Sha Zhu ran into Yan Bugui in the yard. Yan Bugui recalled the previous conflict with Sha Zhu and felt a little embarrassed, but seeing Sha Zhu's enthusiastic look, he could no longer keep a straight face.
"Shazhu, you seem to be in a good mood lately." Yan Bugui said tentatively.