Chapter 834: Setting an Example
Chapter 834: Setting an Example
So, what I want to tell you is, don’t feel guilty at all.
If for no other reason than to avoid corrupting the moral standards in our country, you should not be soft-hearted and you should not compromise.
Otherwise I will look down on you.
Also, please be sure to save yourself from danger thousands and thousands of times.
This is not called being unfilial, this is called being clear-headed, distinguishing between gratitude and resentment, and being sensible.
You cannot be obedient to ordinary parents, you can only be filial to them, let alone parents like yours.
If you pay any more attention to them, I will say that you deserve it and that you deserve all this suffering.
Do you know why we can only be filial but not obedient to our parents?
Because parents are just ordinary people, their vision and ideas are extremely limited.
Most of the advice they give is not to be listened to and will lead children astray.
If I compromise and let it go today, and think that this is no big deal, I will just do it to make the old man happy.
Maybe because of your neglect, they may cause you a terrible disaster one day in the future.
Because their children's endless compromises fueled their restless hearts and made them think that this was nothing.
By the time you realize something is wrong, it's already too late and you can no longer afford it.
By then it will be too late to regret.”
"Thank you, thank you so much. I feel much better after hearing what you said. Really, my life was so tangled and uncomfortable before."
Xia Ran really understood that feeling of being torn apart, because she had experienced it all herself.
That kind of internal friction can tear a person in two. Sometimes you think it should be like this, and sometimes you think it should be like that.
Forgive my parents for letting down the weak and helpless me who crawled out of hell.
If I don't forgive my parents, I will feel petty and my conscience will be hurt.
I hope the person in front of me can take fewer detours, and say: "Love yourself well, and take advantage of the good conditions now to take care of yourself again.
Take yourself to see beautiful scenery, eat delicious food, and appreciate all the beautiful things in this world.
As for them, just treat them as unimportant people.
Not having a parental relationship is not necessarily a bad thing. At least you don’t have to be bound by family ties and you don’t have to care about their life or death.
Just think about how much easier this is.
People who are not virtuous and difficult to deal with will only become more difficult and unreasonable as they get older.
It only takes a few minutes to make you cry with anger or torture you to the point where you would rather die than live.
Caring for an elderly person is a million times more difficult and tiring than caring for a newborn, especially for those unethical and unreasonable elderly people.
It can drive you crazy in a matter of minutes and make you want to die.
Thinking this way, you will feel better and more balanced.
Everything is about cause and effect. If they are particularly nice to you, and you treat them badly in the future, you will not be able to live with it, not to mention anything else, because of your own conscience.
It seems that they are bullying you who were once weak and helpless, but in fact they are making a joke of their later years.
The joke has already been made, and the miserable end of their lives is their best retribution.
You see, you don't even have to do anything, just watch coldly and these two rotten fruits will fall off by themselves.
You see, time will give you the answer, and cause and effect will give you an explanation.
What we need to do is to live well in every moment and try to make our lives more meaningful and valuable.
Then our life on earth will not be in vain."
Wang Lan: "I understand. Thank you. Your words today are so important to me. Really.
Sometimes I can figure it out, and sometimes I get stuck in a rut and can't get around it no matter what.
I even doubted myself, am I really that bad? So bad that my parents dislike me and even abuse me.”
"It's not your problem, it's your parents' heads that are full of shit.
They will regret it in the future, as long as you don't feel soft-hearted.
Next time you encounter similar problems, stop finding fault with yourself. That's what fools do.
Smart people always find fault with others, and often those who only find fault with others are living well.
Things in this world are so interesting. When you become strong, the world will make way for you."
"I won't be soft-hearted. You're right. If I can still forgive them after everything that's happened, then I deserve everything I've suffered."
Xia Ran asked: "Are you sure you've figured it out?"
Wang Lan nodded: "I've thought it through thoroughly."
Xia Ran: "Now that you've thought it through, let's talk about something else.
Do you have any idea of telling or writing down your stories and experiences for all the children in our country who are not liked by their parents?
Especially those girls who have been exploited and enslaved by their parents in every possible way should set an example and be a role model.
At least let them know how to work hard and in which direction?
Instead of bumping around like a headless fly without any solution.
They don’t know how to save themselves, how to break free from their parents’ control, and how to escape from their blood-sucking parents and brothers.”
"What do you mean? I don't quite understand."
Xia Ran: "I would like to invite you to work in our company. The salary will be double your current salary, and it will continue to increase in the future.
I hope you can give speeches and interviews at many universities and TV stations in our country.
I hope that your inspirational story can encourage more people, especially girls who are not liked by their parents.
Let's work together to do something for these poor girls.
By the way, let's start a movement. I want to use this as a starting point to correct the social atmosphere.
What do you think? You don't have to answer me right away. You can think about it carefully.
By the way, let's start again when you have a strong mindset and are sure that telling these things will not hurt you again.
You can definitely consider recording your deeds in the form of an autobiography, and I will help you publish it.
I personally think that your story is very inspiring and touching. It is sure to move millions of people.
Let’s talk about the benefits of writing a book for you. First, the process of describing in words is also a good process of self-healing.
When you express in words some of the obstacles that you once thought you could not overcome, you are basically halfway through.
The second is to publish books and publish in newspapers and magazines. You can make more money, and with this money you can help more people.
Third, you can motivate and encourage many people who are stuck in the quagmire, which is a priceless treasure that cannot be replaced by any amount of money.
What do you think?
If the book is popular, we can make it into a TV series and let your story reach thousands of households.
How about we make your inhuman parents regret their actions? How about we make your uncles and aunts regret their actions to death?
We can criticize these inhuman parents through books and TV dramas.
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