Chapter 462 Sister-in-law supports you
Chapter 462 Sister-in-law supports you
"To get married or not is, in fact, just a choice in life. Just like whether you choose to eat rice or noodles, or whether you choose to wear a red dress or a green dress."
"As long as it's your own choice and you can accept the result, it's fine. It doesn't matter to others." Song Qingci tried his best to speak in a language that Shan Xi could understand. He was afraid that he would get carried away and say words that were beyond the times. She couldn't understand them at all.
"But, but they all said that as a woman, you must get married, and after marriage, it is the orthodox thing to take care of your husband and children." Shan Xi was still confused.
If getting married is just a choice, then why do everyone seem to be saying that it is necessary?
Today was Shan Yu's wedding day, and she had come to congratulate her. But she was ridiculed intentionally or unintentionally. They said that they were both daughters of the Shan family, but the second child had married, but no one cared about her, the first child.
Some even went so far as to secretly say that she was ill and had injured her body, and would never be able to get pregnant, so she couldn't get married now.
I guess I will spend the rest of my life at home.
She also said that all the other girls in the Shan family would be delayed by her.
She didn't want to argue with anyone on this day, so she hid here.
"Just listen to their farts!" Song Qingci was not polite at all.
"Some people are afraid that you won't live well, and they are also afraid that you will live too well. You are the eldest daughter of the general's mansion, and you have already suppressed many people in terms of your family background. Therefore, they want to suppress you in other ways. If you really care about it, it will be exactly what they want." Although Song Qingci hates those little tricks between women, it doesn't mean that she doesn't understand the twists and turns.
"Your life is your own, and your days are your own. Those who try to dictate your life are not likely to be responsible for your life. Therefore, the choice is in your hands, and it is up to you to choose what you want to do."
''only……''
Song Qingci suddenly stopped.
"Just what?" Shan Xi was anxious and wanted to know what was going on.
"It's just that everyone has to pay a price for their choice. If you choose to get married, then no matter how good or bad your life is after marriage, it is the price you need to pay. If you choose not to get married, then the rumors that come with not getting married are the price you have to pay."
"As long as you think about the costs, you can do whatever you want."
"Then...what if you regret your choice?" Shan Xi looked away, a little embarrassed. Did she ask too many questions?
"If you regret it, stop the loss in time!" Song Qingci said without hesitation, "If you find that you can't accept your bad husband and mean mother-in-law after marriage, then separate immediately! Divorce is fine, widowhood is fine, and if it doesn't work, becoming a monk is fine. Anyway, no matter what means you use, as long as you can achieve your goal, it's fine."
"If you feel lonely without getting married, then find a man. You can get married or keep him as a gigolo. It's all up to you. It depends on what you like."
Widowed, raising a gigolo, my god, my sister-in-law is so fierce! Her elder brother knows that his wife is so... so thoughtful!
Song Qingci's remarks really frightened Shan Xi.
She didn't expect that life could have such choices.
Song Qingci reached out and patted Shan Xi's shoulder, and continued, "You are still too young, and there is still a long way to go in life. Don't set limits on your life. As long as you don't break the law, don't violate morality, and don't hurt others, your sister-in-law will support you in whatever you want to do!"
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